近年来,一些中学生随着青春发育期的提前,而萌发了朦胧的爱情意识,早恋的现象也屡屡出现。由于他们正处在从少年到青年过渡的阶段,情绪易波动,缺乏自控力,因此往往因早恋而影响甚至荒废学业。其中还有个别学生盲目崇拜西方的所谓“性解放”,以致造成抱恨终身的遗憾。这无论是对学生个人,还是对于整个社会,都是不利的。那么,怎样正确对待这一问题,引导中学生正确对待人生、事业和理想?怎样做到对学生、对家长和对社会负责?这是我们教育工作者应该认真思索和研究的课题。不少学校领导和教 In recent years, with the advancement of puberty, some middle school students have developed a love consciousness, and the phenomenon of early love has also appeared frequently. Because they are in the stage of transition from youth to youth, their emotions are fluctuating and they lack self-control. Therefore, they often influence and even abandon their studies because of puppy love. There are also individual students who blindly worship the so-called “liberation of the sexes” in the West, resulting in regrets that hold on to lifelong hatred. This is unfavorable to both students and the whole society. Then, how to deal with this problem correctly, guide middle school students to correctly treat life, career and ideals, and how to be responsible for students, parents and society? This is a topic that we educators should seriously consider and study. Many school leaders and teachers