小A,你之所以要转学,就是因为这段时间你的成绩下降,班里有同学议论你。我觉得,就这点理由,就转学,太不值当了。我为什么这样讲呢?我的理由有三,你且听我讲:第一,谁人背后不说人?如果你一天到晚,都注意同学们的议论,你哪还有心情学习?哪还能静下心来听课?这样活着,也太累了。事实上,同学们对你的议论,也是对你的关心。如果大家都不注意你不关心你,谁议论你啊?所以说,对于大家的议论,你不必往心里去,你不必如此在意。 Small A, the reason why you want to transfer, it is because of the decline in your performance during this time, classmates discuss you. I think, on this grounds, transfer to school, too worthwhile. Why do I say this? My reason for three, you listen to me: First, who do not say that people behind? If you are all day long, pay attention to the students’ arguments, which of you still have the mood to learn? Quietly to lectures? This is alive, too tired. In fact, the classmates talk to you, but also for your concern. If everyone does not pay attention to you do not care about you, who talk about you ah? So, for everyone’s argument, you do not have to go to the heart, you do not have to care so much.