遇到人生不如意的事,通常我们会变得情绪低落、心情烦躁,或是满脑子不好的想法。有些人的状况可能要糟很久,有些人却能很迅速地调整过来,不舒服的反应很快就烟消云散。我们说能够很迅速调整心情的人,他(她)们的EQ就比较高。但是我们更加关心的是:“为什么同样的事情会有如此不同的情绪反应呢?” 有一个故事,说的是两个卖鞋的业务 Encounter life unhappy things, usually we will become depressed, irritable mood, or mind is not good idea. Some people may be in bad condition for a long time, while others will be able to adjust quickly. Uncomfortable reactions will soon disappear. We say that people who can quickly adjust their mood, he (she) who EQ is relatively high. But we are more concerned about: “Why the same thing will have such a different emotional reaction?” There is a story that says the two shoes business