二十世纪初，一位17岁的在校住读的青年给当时已如日中天的奥地利诗人里尔克写了一封信，述说自己虽然整天和许多同学在一起，但仍然时时感到寂寞。令他没有想到的是，里尔克很快就回了信，他在信中说：“亲爱的先生，你要爱你的寂寞。”这话听起来，就像是一种恳求，似乎寂寞是一件轻柔、贵重的东西，必须小心翼翼、充满珍视地加以保护。我们今天的人能理解这份珍视吗? At the beginning of the 20th century, a 17-year-old school-aged young man wrote a letter to the now-overhauled Austrian poet Rilke, stating that he was always lonely with many of his classmates all day long. What he did not think of was that Rilke soon wrote back in his letter saying, “Dear sir, you have to love your loneliness.” It sounds like a plea that seems lonely It is a gentle, precious thing that must be carefully and prudently protected. Can we understand this treasure today?