问:我儿子上初中,看问题比较偏激,常用极端的思维方式考虑问题,要么什么都好,要么什么都不好。比如,他对某个歌星有好感,就认为这个歌星一切都好,明知道这个歌星有缺点也不承认,反而为其护短。如果讨厌某人,就认为他所有的一切都不好,甚至会把莫须有的罪名安到人家头上。 Q: My son is in junior high school. Looking at the problem is extreme, often using extreme thinking to consider the problem, either good or bad. For example, he has a good impression on a singer, think that this singer is everything, knowing that the singer has shortcomings do not recognize, but for their protection. If you hate someone, you think that everything is not good for him, and you may even put unwarranted charges on others.