在我们中国的传统文化积淀中,面子是个很重要的内容。鲁迅先生说过:“面子这两个字,很不容易懂,然而是中国精神的纲领。”林语堂也曾说过:“中国民族的特征之一,就是重人情,爱面子。”面子,看不见,摸不着,虚无缥缈却又实实在在,没有价码却又价值无量,似乎很轻,其实很重。可以说,自古及今,讲究面子体现在中国人立身行事的 In our traditional culture in China, face is a very important content. Mr. Lu Xun said: “The two words of the face are not easy to understand, yet they are the program of the Chinese spirit.” Lin Yutang once said: “One of the characteristics of the Chinese nation is that it emphasizes human affection and loves face.” , Touching, nada but real, no price but immeasurable value, it seems very light, in fact, very heavy. It can be said that since ancient times and today, pay attention to the face reflected in the Chinese people act independently