《绝世好爸》中开叔有一个比喻:自己是一棵树,为了子女可以贡献出自己的全部。我们“独生父母”的父母们或者说不出像这样有深度的比喻,可是他们为“独生”的儿孙们所做的奉献有过之而无不及。大多数祖辈家长继续在为“独生父母”和孙辈们活着。为孩子们活,其实孩子们未必领情 There is a metaphor in Uncommon Dad: he is a tree and he can contribute all to his children. Parents of our “only-child parents” either can not say anything like this in-depth metaphor, but their dedication to “only-child” children and grandchildren has gone beyond. Most ancestral parents continue to live for “only child parents” and grandchildren. For children to live, in fact, children may not appreciate the situation