不少人年轻时恋爱,只看中对方漂亮就行,很少想到婚后双方性格、兴趣上是否合得来的问题。我和妻子当年恋爱,也属于这一类。婚后,特别是有了孩子,渐渐发现,她与我很多方面合不来。例如,她不喜欢看书,不喜欢写字,一句话,对学文化不感兴趣。性格上,一点儿不如她意,就大喊大吵,要占上风才罢休;而且她想做的事,就是错了,也要做到 Many young people in love, only fancy the other party on the line, rarely think of both the character of marriage, whether the issue of interest to come together. My wife and I fell in love, also belong to this category. After marriage, especially with children, I found out that she could not get along with me in many ways. For example, she does not like reading, does not like writing, a word, is not interested in learning culture. Character, a little worse than her, shouting, to prevail before giving up; and she wanted to do, is wrong, but also to do