我多年来一直从事心理学及家庭教育工作,发现很多家长经常为孩子的教育问题感到无所适从。他们或请教专家,或进修学习,却发现收效甚微,原因是家长忽略了一个重要的问题:父母自身的人格在孩子成长中发挥的作用。我的观点是:父母是什么样的人,比父母做了什么更重要。大多数父母已认识到,这个世界未来的竞争,不仅是知识、学历、能力的竞争,更重要的是人格层面的竞争,它会影响一个人的成就及幸福感。心理学发展理论认为:婴幼儿阶段 I have been working in psychology and family education for many years and found that many parents often feel at a loss for their child’s education. When they consult an expert or pursue further study, they find it very ineffective because parents neglect one important question: the role their parents have in their children’s growth. My point of view is: what kind of person a parent is, what is more important than what a parent does. Most parents have realized that the future competition in this world is not only the competition of knowledge, education and ability, but more importantly, the competition in personality level, which will affect one’s achievements and happiness. Psychology theory of development that: infant stage