“家规制约法”就是用家庭的纪律、规范、制度等约束孩子,使其按正确的要求去做,并逐步形成良好习惯的方法。青少年自觉性不高,需要一定的制约。要克服不良习惯,既需要内部的意志力,也需要外部的强制力,完全靠自觉是不行的。我们提倡说服教育,但不等于不要惩罚。孩子犯了错误,给以一定的批评教育以至惩罚都是必要的,当然这只能是辅助手段,但没有也是不行的。 “Family rules and regulations ” is to use the family discipline, norms, institutions and other constraints of children, to make it to the correct requirements, and gradually form a good habit. Adolescent consciousness is not high, you need some constraints. To overcome unhealthy habits, we need both internal will power and external force. It is impossible to rely entirely on our own consciousness. We advocate persuasion but do not mean not to punish. It is necessary for children to make mistakes, give some criticism to education and even punish them. Of course, this can only be an adjunct, but it is impossible or impossible.