纽约婚姻关系研究机构曾经对近千名已婚女性做过调查,发现其中绝大部分人都认为天底下最难的事情就是给男人提建议。女士们一致认为,狂妄、自大、固执己见是男人共有的特性,要想让男人接受别人,尤其是女人的意见简直是一件不可能的事情。在她们看来,男人在面对意见的时候总是会采取防御和抵制的态度。我承认,男人有时候确实是对自己的自尊过于敏 The New York Institute of Marriage has investigated nearly a thousand married women and found that the vast majority of them think the most difficult thing under the sun is to give men suggestions. Ladies and gentlemen agree that arrogance, arrogance and assertiveness are common features of men. It is simply impossible for men to accept the opinions of others, especially women. In their opinion, men always take a defensive and boycott attitude in the face of opinion. I admit that men are sometimes overly sensitive to their self-esteem