做小学一年级新生的班主任已经有好几年了。作为一名年轻老师,我一直希望自己能做一个真正爱孩子,而且具有现代教育思想的老师。可是,说实话,为学生做了很多工作,辛辛苦苦,却不见效果。有的学生见了老师不敢讲话,常常头一低就溜过去了;有的学生升入高年级以后几乎不记得老师了。每当这时,我就总是在反思自己的教育,是不是我对学生太严格了?学生们真正需要什么?到底什么才是真正的爱呢? It has been several years since I was a freshman in charge of primary school. As a young teacher, I always wanted to be a teacher who truly loves children and has a modern educational philosophy. However, to be honest, a lot of work for students, hard, but not effective. Some students met the teacher did not dare to speak, often slipped over the first low; some students hardly remember the teacher after they entered the upper grades. Whenever this time, I always reflect on their own education, is not that I am too strict with the students? What students really need? What is the real love?