观念撞击、愿望不达、迫于无奈……都会产生痛苦、抑郁或挫折感。其实,安详和快乐的好心情此时离我们也并不遥远。有哲人总结出“快乐三论”。一曰“尺有所短,寸有所长”。只要善于发现任何人、任何事的长处和优势,就会保持愉悦满足的好心情。有一位历经坎坷的人,直到老年还是笑口常开,凡事都说一个字“好!”他老伴儿生病住院了,他还是说“好!”别人不解,他说:“这辈子老伴儿服侍我的时候多,现 The concept of impact, desire is not up, forced helpless ... ... will have pain, depression or frustration. In fact, good mood of peace and happiness at this time is not far away from us. Some philosophers summed up ”happy three theory “. One said ”ruler is short, inch has director “. As long as you are good at discovering the merits and benefits of anyone and everything, you will have a good mood of pleasure and contentment. There is a bumpy person, until the old age is still laughing, always say a word ”good! “ His wife was sick to hospital, he said ”good! “ Others puzzled, he said: ”This time my wife and children served me more time, now