在我们的日常生活中,经常会遇到这样的父母,当他们看到自己的孩子某些行为不合心意时,就劈头盖脑地大吵大骂,挖苦讽刺,而且成了习惯。这是对儿童精神上的一种虐待。曾经对父母职责及幼儿发育作过广泛研究的美国明尼苏达大学心理学家艾吉兰教授指出,精神上受虐待的儿童在成长过程中所遭受的思想和心理阻滞,甚至比肉体上受虐待的儿童更大,因为这是对儿童自尊 In our daily life, we often encounter such parents, when they see some of their children do not agree with some behavior, they blame, sarcasm, and become accustomed to. This is a mental abuse of children. Professor Aijilan, a psychologist at the University of Minnesota who once conducted extensive research on parental responsibilities and early childhood development, points out that mentally ill children suffer more mental and psychological retardation than they are physically abused Children are bigger because it is self-esteem for children