爱情的河流,管理得好能浇灌出绿洲,管理不好则可能淹没良田;过分沉湎于爱河,不但影响情绪,而且会干扰工作。人常说:做军人的妻子难,做边海防军人的妻子就更难。可是见过我妻子的人都说:万海好福气,找了一个才貌双全的“富”经理、好妻子。我也常常喜滋滋地念叨:萍,你是我心中的太阳。想起我的太阳,一幕幕往事历历在目:两个带病的老人、四个年幼的弟妹;四间破瓦房,淅淅沥沥地往下掉土;当个“一毛二”(中尉),每月就一百大洋……这就是我——当时海防某团排长的家境和身境。就凭这些,哪个姑娘敢以身相许?亲友介绍的几个姑娘一听说我的家境,再听说守边 The river of love is well managed to irrigate the oasis, and poor management may inundate the fertile land. Excessive indulgence in love not only affects emotions but also disrupts work. It is often said that it is harder to be a military wife and to be more difficult to do while a coastal defense force’s wife. However, people who have seen my wife said: Wanhai blessed, looking for a rich and powerful “rich” manager, good wife. I often talk happily: Ping, you are the sun in my heart. Reminiscent of my sun, scenes are vivid: two sick elderly, four young siblings; four broken Wafang, pattering down to fall off soil; when a Lieutenant), a hundred oceans per month ... This is what I was - a pawn of Haiphong a squad leader of the family and body. Relying on these, which girl dare to deceive? Relatives and friends introduced a few girls heard my family, then heard that guard