guanghua&tianlan@163.com问:我的儿子5岁,到哪里都喜欢抱着自己的枕巾,我们说过他很多次,没有什么效果。请问,这是怎么回事?如何正确引导他?答:在特定物品的陪伴下,孩子能获得慰藉和安全感,一旦离开它,孩子就容易出现哭闹、焦虑、失眠等表现,这种情况称为恋物行为。“恋物”本身不会对孩子的成长产生消极影 guanghua&tianlan@163.com Q: My son is 5 years old and loves to hug her own pillowcases everywhere. We said many times that he had no effect. Excuse me, what’s going on? How to guide him correctly? A: In the accompany of a specific item, the child can get solace and a sense of security, once left, the child is prone to crying, anxiety, insomnia and other performance, this situation Known as fetishism. “Fetish ” itself will not have a negative impact on the child’s growth