孩子迷恋网络是被逼上梁山的,他在现实学习和生活中所缺少的,或者是没有得到满足的,在网络中能够得到。一旦他回到现实世界后,相关需要又缺失了,孩子只有会回到虚拟的网络世界中去再次找寻。因此,形成了一个恶性的循环。他们在网络中找寻的是什么呢?一、寻找成功由于功课繁重,很多孩子经历着分数上的失败,而网上的过关晋级能够给他们带来成功的喜悦,满足成功需要和超越需要:与自己过去相比,成为了“新”的自己;与 Children are infatuated with the Internet is forced to Liangshan, he was in the actual learning and life, lack of or not met, can be obtained in the network. Once he returns to the real world, the related needs are missing, and the child will only go back to the virtual online world to find again. Therefore, a vicious cycle has taken shape. What are they looking for in the internet? I. Finding Success Due to the heavy workload, many children experience the failure of scores. The promotion of online clearance can bring them joy of success and meet the needs of success and surpassing needs. Compared to the past, became a “new” self; and