“老师,我的鞋带掉了。”“老师,××打我。”“老师,我要小便。”……幼儿为各种小事频繁告状,教师“两耳不得清静”,忙得晕头转向,还是顾得了这而顾不了那。这是在幼儿园常见的现象。我觉得造成这种状况的原因不能只在幼儿身上找,还要在教育者的教育方法中去找。比如说,教师认为帮小朋友扣钮扣、系鞋带是自己份内的工作,因此有求必应,而没有主动去培养幼儿自我服务的能力和互助精神。久而久之,便形成了幼儿对老师的依赖性。鞋带掉了, “Teacher, my shoes have been taken away.” “Teacher, ×× hit me.” “Teacher, I want to urinate.” ... Infants complain frequently for all kinds of small things. Teachers are not allowed to be quiet in their ears. Still take care of it. This is a common phenomenon in kindergarten. I think the reason for this situation can not be found only in young children, but also in the education of educators to find. For example, teachers think that helping children to buckle buttons and fasten shoelaces is their own job, so they have no alternative but to take the initiative to develop children’s self-service ability and mutual assistance. Over time, it formed a child’s dependence on the teacher. Lace lost