人生有五样事情,我们不必去管。父母第一件事,是谁生了我们,我们不必管。这事我们管不了。德国存在主义哲学家海德格尔说:我们是被“抛入”这个世界的。我们一出生,就面对这样一个事实:我来了!哪怕发现情况不妙,不管我们多不情愿,也回不去了。于是,跟世界初遇时,我们的第一个反应就是:哭!睁开眼睛,我们看到父母,不管他们是美的、丑的,都是父母。这,我们没法选择,不必去管。再大一些,等我们懂得一点世故,再看父母, There are five things in life, we do not have to manage. The first thing parents, who gave birth to us, we do not have control. We can not manage this matter. Heidegger, a German existentialist philosopher, said: We are being “thrown into the world”. As soon as we were born, we were faced with the fact that I came! Even if we found the situation is not good, no matter we are reluctant, we can not go back. So, when the world first met, our first reaction is: cry! Open your eyes, we see parents, whether they are beautiful, ugly, are parents. This, we can not choose, do not have to manage. Then larger, so that we know a little sophisticated, look at their parents,