父母无不望子成龙、望女成凤。现在的孩子个性独立,自主意识越来越强,外国家庭一直秉持“再富也不能富孩子”的观点,日本父母主张孩子自力更生,不能随便向别人借钱。而中国历来就有“再苦不能苦孩子”的说法,因此舍得给孩子花钱成了中国父母的共性。 Parents are hopeless, Jackie Chan into women. Nowadays, children are more and more independent and their sense of autonomy is stronger and stronger. Foreign families always hold the view that “if children can not be rich again,” Japanese parents advocate that their children should be self-reliance and can not borrow money from others. And China has always had the saying that “no more bitterness can suffer from children”, so being willing to spend money for the children has become the commonality of Chinese parents.