在很长的一段时间里,我都以为随波逐流是人生最安全的状态。小时候,家属院里的孩子们做游戏,妈妈对我说,跟着大孩子玩会比较安全。但玩久了我就发现,领头的那个“大姐大”心太坏。她总是背后欺负刚来的人,有时候还骂人,打人时巴掌声震天响。我那时虽然并不懂得大道理,但潜意识里开始远离那个圈子。 For a long time I thought that drift was the safest condition of life. When I was young, my family’s children played games. My mom told me that it would be safer to play with older children. But playing for a long time I found that the leader of the “big sister big” heart is too bad. She has always been behind the bully just arrived, and sometimes curse, slap while the beating hit. Although I did not know the truth at that time, I started to stay away from that circle.