面子牵动着每个中国人的神经,“给面子”、“没面子”、“撕破脸”等词语印证了面子的重要意义。婆媳关系作为家庭关系中的难题,除了文化、价值观、生活方式等客观因素外,“面子”在主观上加深了婆媳间的障碍。俗话说,“人活一张脸,树活一张皮”。20世纪40年代,人类学家胡先晋女士提出:“面子代表在中国广受重视的一种声誉,是借由成 Face affects every Chinese nerve, ”to the face“, ”no face “, ”torn face “ and other words confirmed the significance of the face. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a difficult problem in family relations. In addition to the objective factors such as culture, values ​​and way of life, ”face “ has subjectively deepened the obstacles between mother and daughter. As the saying goes, ”people live a face, tree live a skin “. In the 1940s, the anthropologist Hu Xianjin proposed: ”The reputation that the face represents is widely valued in China,