在我的老家山东黄县,人死后的讲究颇为烦琐和细致。上坟烧七,即入殓3天后开始的49天内每7天去一次坟地焚化供品的祭奠仪式,也是讲究中隆重的一项。那年正值少年的弟弟因病去世的时候,我和哥哥都正离家在外为各自将来的出路奔波,妹妹还一团孩气,丧事就皆由父母及族中本家料理。白发人送走了黑发人。得知噩讯后,度过了一段终生刻 In my hometown of Huang County, Shandong, after the death of people is quite cumbersome and meticulous. On the grave seven, that is, three days after the beginning of 殓 49 within 49 days every 7 days to go to a cemetery incineration offerings, but also pay attention to a grand. At that time, when my younger brother died due to illness, both my brother and I were away from home for their own future. The younger sister also got angry. The funeral was handled by his parents and his family members. White hair sent dark hair person. After hearing the news, I spent a lifetime of carving