人愈长大,愈会发现,身上有一些最重要的东西,是来自于母亲。我的母亲是客家人,客家人虽然常自称来自中原,有泱泱大中华、正统汉族文化传统云云。其实,在台湾早期的闽南人眼中,客家人很烂,很叫人看不起,因为客家人会卖女儿,也会买女儿。所谓的“养女”“童养媳”制度(这制度坏到要叫蒋介石立法禁止。到现在,还写在台湾的历史课本中,成为蒋介石德政之一),买了女儿,养上,以后给儿子当媳妇,又多了劳动力,又省了聘金,一举多得。 The bigger the person, the more you will find that there are some of the most important things that come from the mother. My mother is a Hakka. Hakka, although often claiming to be from the Central Plains, has a great tradition of Han Chinese culture and orthodox Han culture. In fact, in the eyes of the Taiwanese people in early Taiwan, the Hakka were very poor and very despised. Hakkas would sell their daughters and buy their daughters. The so-called “daughter-in-law” system (a system that is so bad that it is forbidden to be thrown into law by Chiang Kai-shek and has now been written in Taiwan’s historical textbooks as one of Chiang Kai-shek’s virtues), bought her daughter, After the son to a daughter-in-law, another labor force, but also save the bride price, in one fell swoop.