在伯尔尼大学上婚姻社会学课的时候,同学丹尼埃尔站起来发表了一个惊人的观点:男人要甘于做女人的一条狗。班上仅有的四五个亚洲男人受惊非小,其他瑞士同学包括老师却安然微笑,居然还有人鼓掌。丹尼埃尔受到鼓舞,侃侃 At the University of Bern in the sociology of marriage class, classmates Danielle stood up and made a surprising point: men should be willing to be a woman’s dog. The only four or five Asian men in the class were frightened. Other Swiss students, including the teacher, smiled safely, but others applauded. Danielle was encouraged and cared