常常听到各种各样的人抱怨他们的婚姻质量不高，开始还以为家庭生活真像这些人所说的一无是处，但是听得多了终于听出了毛病出在哪儿，其实这事儿谁都不怪就怪他们自己——他们之所以有如此多的怨言烦语，完全是由于自身对婚姻质量的期待和要求过高了。我之所以敢说这样的话， People often hear a variety of people complain about the quality of their marriage is not high, began to think that family life really like these people said nothing, but heard more finally found out where the problem lies, in fact, this matter It is not surprising that they themselves - they are so annoyed that so much of their annoyance is entirely due to their own expectations and demands for the quality of marriage being excessive. The reason why I dare to say such a thing,