夫妻过日子难免吵架,吵得过多就会反目成仇,劳燕分飞。那么,两口子之间有没有白头偕老的秘诀呢?一位德国科学家经过潜心研究,终于得出幸福婚姻的“配方”。汉斯博士是鲁尔大学社会心理学系的教授,他与同事罗曼就如何使夫妻关系“保鲜”这个课题进行了广泛研究。他们调查了数千对夫妇后发现,夫妻关系的裂痕都是从日常生活中的口角开始的。一方因什么事指责另一方,后者往往“伺机报复”,结果形成恶性循环,最终导致分手。汉斯博士指出,要想婚姻幸福长久,应该遵守以下规则:每当你责备伴侣1次后,都应该找机 Husband and wife live an unavoidable quarrel, too much noise will turn against each other, Lao Yanfenfei. So, there is no secrets between the couple ever-growing? A German scientist after painstaking research, and finally come to a happy “formula” of marriage. Dr. Hans, a professor of social psychology at the University of Luer, and his colleague Romain conducted extensive research on how to keep the relationship between husband and wife fresh. After they investigated thousands of couples, they found that the rift between husband and wife started from the mouth of everyday life. One side blames the other for what it does, and the latter tends to “await retaliation”. The result is a vicious circle that eventually leads to a breakup. Dr. Hans pointed out that in order to have a happy marriage for a long time, the following rules should be observed: Whenever you blame your partner once, you should find a chance