时代转型期具有的特点向传统的稳态婚姻提出了挑战,而非稳态的婚姻家庭在进步与裂变的两重价值意义上与时俱进,其中女性付出了极大的代价。女性在现代婚姻家庭中如何认识和谐婚姻与家庭稳态的组构要素,经营婚姻,包括对待婚姻过失、调适灵肉关系、摆对婚姻间距、面对单亲家庭、谐合二次婚姻,不仅是现代婚姻家庭研究面临的课题与应对措施,而且是营造和谐社会的基元要素。现代一夫一妻制家庭的和谐稳定可以说是社会基元结构“效应最大化”的历史选择。 The characteristics of the transitional period have posed challenges to the traditional steady-state marriage, while the non-steady marriage and family have kept pace with the times in the dual values ​​of progress and fission, and women have paid a great price. How women recognize the elements of harmonious marriage and family homeostasis in modern marriage and family, manage marriages, including treating marriage mistakes, adjusting the relationship between spiritual and flesh, placing marriage spacing apart, confronting single-parent families and harmonizing the second marriage Modern marriage and family study the problems and countermeasures, but also to create a harmonious society, the basic elements. The harmony and stability of the modern monogamy family can be said to be the historical choice of the social elementary structure “effect maximization ”.