【案例】有一些家长,往往把子女的学习不好、行为不好归咎于学校和教师的教育不力。当老师的,本身在这些学生身上就多投入了大量的时间和精力,但听到的却是一些不顺耳的话,自然感到委屈,便也埋怨起家长这般没水平,也急于为自己辩解。这样,家长又认为教师不够谦虚,将所有过错都推到了学生及家长身上。如此,家长和教师很容易闹僵。例如:“我小孩在一二年级都是三好学生,都是班上前几名,现在怎 [Case] ​​Some parents often put their children’s poor learning and behavior attributed to the poor education of schools and teachers. When the teacher himself devoted a great deal of time and energy to these students, he hears some unpleasant words and naturally grieves at the level of his parents. He is also eager to justify himself. In this way, parents also think that teachers are not humble enough to push all their mistakes to students and parents. In this way, parents and teachers can easily become stiff. For example: ”My child is a good student in the first and second grade, are the top few in the class, now how