法律是做人、做事的最底线。大多数人不会触到这个最底线。在我们的实际生活中,更多面对的是各式各样的婚姻状态和各式各样的子女关系。有“完整”的家庭,也有“不完整”的家庭。表面上完整的家庭里,不一定没有暗流;看上去“破碎”的家庭里,也许有着坚韧的亲情纽带。在解决婚姻问题的时候,孩子常常是分量最重的一个砝码。有些父母让这个砝码压得透不过气来;有些父母干脆把这个砝码拿掉。很多人陷入了一个怪圈:拆散这个家,于心不忍;留着这个家,全无功能。在阅读了一番法律条文后,我们可以轻松地听一听龙迪女士的看法。 Law is a man, the bottom line of doing things. Most people do not touch this bottom line. In our real life, more are faced with all kinds of marital status and a wide range of children’s relations. There are families of “complete ”, but also “incomplete ” families. The seemingly “broken” family may have a tactile bond of affection, not necessarily without undercurrent, in a seemingly complete family. When solving marital problems, children are often the heaviest weight. Some parents put the weight under pressure; some parents simply take the weight off. Many people fall into a vicious circle: break up this home, could not bear; keep this home, no function. After reading a number of legal provisions, we can easily listen to Ms. Rudy’s opinion.