当女人在整个社会文化中被置于“第二性”的位置时,她们在性上的被岐视地位便也注定了。不论是东方还是西方,一些关于女人的性认识竟出奇地一致,诸如女人性欲淡薄呀,女人不需要性高潮呀,女人的性快感来得慢呀,等等。在我们的心目中,性对于女人远远不如对于男人重要。历史发展到今天,女人们开始要求她们性的权利了。男人们也开始想给自己的性伴侣以性的满足了。但是,女人和男人似乎都不太清楚应该怎么做。男人不清楚,尚可理喻,女人不清楚,实在是巨大的悲哀。幸好有性学家,这些致力于人类性生命活动的学者通过他们太多不为人理解的努力,为我们展示了一幅幅使女人快乐起来的美好前景,纠正了一个又一个习惯的谬误,引导向快乐之途。一种习惯的谬论是,女人比男人对性行为和性欲高潮缺乏兴趣,而更对感情感兴趣。即使有女人这样表示,我们也应该清楚,那是因为她们没有得到过真正的性高潮,或对从与男人的性行为中得到性高潮不抱希望,才会有这种违反生物本能的表态。另一个关于女人性高潮的神话是女人要比男人用更多的时间才能达到性高潮。事实是,在海特的一些被调查者表示,当她们自慰的时候,往往只用一两分钟就能达到高潮。如果女人的高潮来得慢,不是她们生理上有 When women are placed “second sex” in the entire social culture, they are also sexually disillusioned. Whether it is the East or the West, some of the sexual awareness about women is surprisingly consistent, such as a woman’s lack of sexual Yeah, women do not need orgasm Yeah, women’s sexual pleasure is slower, and so on. In our minds sex is far less important to women than men. As history has evolved, women have begun demanding their sexual rights. Men also began to want to sexual satisfaction with their sexual partners. However, neither woman nor man seems to know what to do. Men are not clear, still reasonable, women are not clear, it is a huge sadness. Fortunately, there are sexologists, who, through their too-not-understood efforts, show us good prospects of happiness for women, correct the fallacies of habit after habit, and guide Way to happiness. The fallacy of a habit is that women are more interested in feelings than men for lack of interest in sexual activity and orgasm. Even though women have said so, we should also make it clear that this is because they have not had a true orgasm, or have no hope of having an orgasm with a man’s sexual behavior. Another myth about a woman’s orgasm is that women use more time than men to reach orgasm. The fact is that some of the respondents in Hite said that when they masturbate, it often takes only a minute or two to reach their climax. If women’s climax is slow, not that they have physical