四川夏先生问: 我女儿今年12岁,性格偏内向,不爱说话,尤其怕跟陌生人打招呼,语言表达能力差,我和太太虽然想了些办法帮助她,但效果不大。请问如何才能改变这种状况呢? 夏先生: 对于性格内向的孩子,父母欲逼其改变,如果方法不当,不但达不到提高孩子语言表达能力的目的,反而会使孩子更加退缩。要想让孩子“能说会道”,我们建议家长从以下几方面去尝试。第一,父母跟孩子说话时,最好用和缓、清晰的语调。如果孩子平时说话的语速比较缓 Mr. Xia, Sichuan Question: My daughter is 12 years old and she is introverted and does not like to talk. She is especially afraid of greet strangers and has poor language skills. Although my wife and I also thought of some ways to help her, it was not effective. How can we change this situation? Xia: For introverted children, parents want to force them to change. If improper methods, not only fail to improve children’s language skills, but will make children more retreat. In order to make children “able to talk,” we suggest that parents try from the following aspects. First, it is best to use gentle, clear tones when your parents talk to their children. If the child usually speak more slowly