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沟通的核心,不是说服、不是辩解,更不是争论谁对谁错,而是倾听和感受。衡量一次沟通是否成功的标准是:你是否通过这次沟通,体会到了对方的感受?小白和大力是一对结婚刚两年的小夫妻。婚后两人一直在一件事情上存在分歧:两人贷款买了婚房,月还5000,要还20年。小白的意思是趁着年轻,多挣点少花点,一鼓作气把这贷款还清了。大力的意思是,贷款就这么慢慢还着,生活不用太紧巴,该花的地方还得花,比如1年至少安排两次旅行。一开始,两人也就这件事进行沟
The core of communication is not persuasion, justification, nor argument of who is right or wrong, but rather listening and feeling. A measure of the success of a communication standard is: Do you communicate through this, feel each other’s feelings? White and energetic is a pair of married couple just two years. The two men have been divorced in one thing: the two borrowed money to buy a marriage room, with a monthly payment of 5,000 and a further 20 years. The meaning of white is taking advantage of young, more points to spend less, make a fuss to pay off the loan. Strongly means that the loan is still so slowly still, life is not too tight, the flowers have spent, such as 1 year at least two trips. In the beginning, the two men also ditched on this matter