不要以为美满的婚姻就没有争吵,那是不切实际的。就像烧菜不能没有盐一样,世界上没有不争吵的夫妻。倘若真正发展到连争吵的气力和兴趣都没有了,那也就意味着婚姻已经走到了尽头。争吵,是爱情生活的调味品,是夫妻感情的稳定剂。争吵,实质上就是一种有效的沟通。有了争吵,就能把心中的问号拉直,就能把心中的疑虑打消。这种争吵的沟通方式,当 It is impractical to not argue with a happy marriage. Just like cooking without salt, there are no unhappy couples in the world. If there is no real strength and interest in quarrels, it means the marriage has come to an end. Quarrel is a condiment of love life, is a stabilizer of the couple’s feelings. Quarrel is essentially an effective communication. With a quarrel, you can straighten out the hearts of the question mark, you can dispel the doubts in mind. This quarrel communication, when