生活中有许多父母往往会走向两个极端：要么溺爱、娇惯孩子，要么处处限制、粗暴对待孩子，其结果都是令人担忧的。当然教育孩子要严格，但严格不等于专制，严格是在孩子和大人平等的基础上，给孩子讲清做人处事的道理，以理服人，这样的严格才不会对孩子造成伤害。　下面的内容是摘自德国著名教育家卡尔·威特所著《卡尔·威特的教育》一书。卡尔·威特把自己的儿子──一个低智儿培养成了闻名全德意志的奇才。　 Many parents in life tend to go to two extremes: either spoiled, spoiled, restricted or rude, and the results are worrisome. Of course, children should be educated strictly, but not strictly autocratic. Strictly based on the equality of children and adults, the children should be made clear of the truth of doing things in a man’s work and should be persuaded by reason. Such strictness will not cause any harm to the children. The following is an excerpt from Karl Witt’s book Education by Karl Witt, a famous German educator. Karl Witt put his son ─ ─ a low-educated children trained to become known to all the will of the Wizards.