以前朋友间聚会，父母一句话，转天全家老小就出现了。不知什么时候，父母开始犹豫，先是要征求孩子的意见，然后看看孩子的安排，即使就是为了孩子搞的聚会，也要看他喜欢否。局外人一定会问怎么回事，回答常常是：“等你的孩子大了，就知道了。”孩子大？多大？一般我们讲的 Before the gathering of friends, parents sentence, day after day the whole family appeared. I do not know when, parents began to hesitate, first to solicit the views of children, and then look at the child’s arrangements, even if it is for children to engage in parties, but also depends on whether he likes. Outsiders will certainly ask what’s going on, and the answer is often: “When your kid is big, you know.” How old? Generally we talk about it