“李某是我们中队一霸,他力气足,拳头大,特爱打人。打完人还恶人先告状,我们特别烦他。”“老师,我们都盼他生病,别来上学,那样,我们就踏实多啦!”“踢球时没有他,我们很痛快。不然,还不够他在球场上闹!”不少孩子向我诉说着心中的苦闷。一个虎背熊腰、从不吃亏的小男孩儿形象立刻出现在我的脑海中。虽然孩子们的言词有些偏激,却反映了真实的问题。我知道,如今在家里被供着,在人群中没有集体意识,在生活中不知规范,任意放纵自我的孩子不只李某一个。他们特别需要辅导员老师的关注 “Lee is our squadron leader, his strength enough, big fist, special love beaten .After the villain wicked first notice, we are particularly annoying him.” “Teacher, we all hope he is ill, do not come to school, so, We are pragmatic and more! ”“ When he played without him, we are happy, otherwise, not enough for him on the pitch! ”Many children told me the heart of depression. A bear tiger's waist, never suffer a boy image immediately appeared in my mind. Although children's words are somewhat extreme, they reflect real problems. I know that nowadays it is given at home, there is no collective consciousness in the crowd, nor is it normative in life, and there is not only Lee, who arbitrarily indulges himself. They especially need the attention of counselors and teachers