孩子是祖国的未来、家庭的希望。让孩子健康快乐地成长,是家庭和学校的共同责任。现在的家庭多是独生子女,我们国家又有着尊老爱幼的优良传统,这样对子女偏爱一些就成情理之中的事情了。这时即使孩子提出无理的要求,也是千方百计满足,天长日久会养成孩子任性、自私的不良习惯,吃不得苦,自理能力差,缺乏团结精神。孩子就像一株幼苗,经历过风吹雨打、严寒酷暑,才能长 Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the family. Let the children grow up healthy and happy, is the common responsibility of family and school. At present, most of the families are only children, and our country has a fine tradition of respecting and loving one’s young children. In this way, it makes sense for children to love some things. At this moment, even if children make unreasonable demands, they try their best to satisfy each other. Everlasting will develop their headstrong, selfish and unhealthy habits. Children like a seedling, experienced wind and rain, cold and heat, can grow