事有凑巧,上午接你的信,告诉了我你对培养自己孩子的想法。小诗人田晓非的爸爸中午就到了,他到南京有事,顺便也来看看我。我们的话题,自然又谈到了晓菲。我那篇《和女儿谈田晓菲》在《少年文艺》刊出后,一段时间,晓菲每天能收到好几封信,有的来自西藏、新疆、内蒙这些边远地区。足见要求上进,是我们这时代青少年的普遍心理,其中当然也包括天下父母对子女的瞩望之心。我现在何尝不是这样,因为你有了孩子,我头脑里也顿时增添了一个悬念。于是,我提出的问题,就从晓菲 By coincidence, the letter I received from you in the morning told me your thoughts on nurturing your own children. Xiaobo Tian Xiaobo poet arrived at noon, he was going to Nanjing, by the way also look at me. We talk about Xiaofei naturally. Xiaofei received several letters a day after my article titled Tian Xiaofei and her daughter appeared in Young Literature and Art. Some came from remote areas such as Tibet, Xinjiang and Inner Mongolia. Enough to seeks to move forward is the general psychology of our young people in this era. Of course, it also includes the hearts of parents in the world in regard to their children. I do not like this now, because you have children, my mind suddenly added a suspense. So, I raised the question, from Xiaofei