最近一段时间,电视荧屏上热播的《金太郎的幸福生活》《天真与现实》《婚巢》等电视剧不仅真实地展现了现代年轻夫妇的感情生活,而且将当今中国独生子女联姻后,亲家双方如何处理相互关系的问题摆在了人们面前。其实,没有血缘关系,因为子女联姻而走到一起的亲家,由于地域差异、生活习惯、思想观念等方面的问题,难免发生一些矛盾。如果亲家双方明白事理,相互谅解,办事多为对方考虑,就会息事宁人;如果亲家双方遇到事情都站在自己子女的立场上,挑对方的毛病,指责对方,则会造成子女家庭不和,甚至婚姻破裂。特别是有了第三代,形成“四二一”家庭模式(即四个老人、 Recently, TV series such as Kintar’s Happy Life, Naive and Reality, Wedding Nest and other television series have not only truly demonstrated the emotional life of the modern young couple, but also transformed the current Chinese one-child marriage. The issue of how the two sides deal with each other’s relations is put before people. In fact, there is no blood relationship, because their children marry together and relatives, due to geographical differences, living habits, ideological and other issues, it is inevitable that some contradictions. If both parents and relatives understand things and understand each other’s behavior and consider each other more than others, they will be able to rest and rest if their relatives and families encounter things that stand on their own children’s position, pick each other’s problems and accuse each other, it will result in the child’s family discord, Even the marriage broke down. In particular, with the third generation, a family pattern of “four hundred twenty-one” (ie, four elderly people,