如今的孩子,不管在生活还是学习上,处处表现出较强的依赖性、独立性比较差、意志力薄弱的现象。针对这一现象本文论述了在家庭中父母应该如何培养幼儿的独立性,以及如何培养幼儿自我服务、独立思考、独立应变、解决问题等独立能力。家长要切实转变观念,落实行动,要求孩子学会自己的事情自己做,从最基本的小事做起,由易到难、循序渐进地提出要求并进行引导,使孩子尽早学会独立。 Today’s children, living or studying, show strong dependence everywhere, poor independence and weak willpower. In response to this phenomenon, this article discusses how parents should be able to train their children’s independence in the family and how to develop young children’s independent ability such as self-service, independent thinking, independent response and problem solving. Parents should effectively change their concepts and implement actions that require children to learn to do their own thing from the basic trivial matters, from easy to difficult, step by step to request and guide to enable children to learn as soon as possible independence.