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我们时常想,如果对方能够改变,我的日子就会好过点。先别说对方,你能够改变自己吗?你可以今天开始放弃一样自己最喜欢的食物吗?你可以改掉一种习惯吗?你可以学习不再埋怨吗?你可以从今天起不再发怒吗?你能够不再自以为是吗?你能够减少一点虚吗?你可以每天早起一小时吗?连改变自己都那么困难,你凭什么认为别人可以改变?我们总是埋怨,如果他不是这样,我就不会这样,如果他对我好一点,我也会对他好一点。你为什么不先对他好一点?
We often think that if the other party can change, my life will be better. Could you tell me that you can change yourself right now? Can you start giving up your favorite food today? Can you get away with a habit? Can you learn to stop complaining? Can you stop being angry from today? Can you stop being self-righteous? Can you reduce a little bit of asthma? Can you wake up for an hour a day? Even change yourself so difficult, how do you think others can change? We always complain, if he is not, I Not like this, if he treats me better, I will treat him better. Why do not you treat him better?