多数时候,当校园暴力发生,人们会把责任和希望寄托在学校身上,认为学校加强对学生的教育、监管和惩罚是遏制校园暴力的根本。事实上,这些措施都不能减少校园暴力。尤其对于青春期的孩子,是人生最无法无天的一个阶段,同时又是逆反心理最强的一段。孩子们不会因为教育和监管而控制自己的行为,相反,这些监管有可能导致一部分孩子的逆反,变本加厉。另一方面,学校和老师再监管,也无法监控到所有孩子的分分秒秒。所以,预防孩子遭受校园暴力侵害,主要还是要靠孩子自己和家长,或者我说的再直接一点,这事只能靠自己。 Most of the time, when violence on campus occurs, people place their responsibilities and hopes on the school. They think that strengthening the education, supervision and punishment of students at schools is fundamental to curbing campus violence. In fact, none of these measures can reduce campus violence. Especially for adolescent children, life is the most lawless stage, but at the same time is the strongest anti-partisan. Children do not control their own behavior because of education and supervision. On the contrary, these regulations may lead to the rebellion of some children intensified. On the other hand, schools and teachers regularize again, and they can not monitor all children in seconds. Therefore, to prevent children from being victimized by campus violence, the main thing is to rely on the children themselves and their parents, or I say a little more directly. This can only be done by ourselves.