案例一:在邻居眼中,冬冬是个聪明伶俐、懂事、有礼貌的孩子。可在妈妈看来,9岁的冬冬暴露出更多的小毛病:做事磨蹭,不专心,喜欢边写作业边玩个橡皮什么的,别人十分钟的作业量他要花上2￣3倍的时间。业余时间还要学习钢琴、奥数、英语等,每晚不忙到九点多钟是不能罢手的,孩子辛苦,家 Case one: in the eyes of his neighbors, winter is a smart, sensible, polite child. May be in the mother’s view, 9-year-old winter exposes more minor problems: work dawdle, do not concentrate, like writing while playing an eraser or something else, people take 10 minutes he would spend 2 to 3 times time. Spare time to study piano, Mathematical Olympiad, English, etc., every night is not busy until nine o’clock can not give up, children work hard, home