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成长中的快乐与烦恼，我们愿同父母分享，他们永远是我们躲避风浪的港湾。你从心里感激父母创造并呵护了你，他们让你无忧无虑地享受生活。可是，有时你也会对父母的所作所为感到不理解，甚至会怨恨他们。这样的时候我们该怎么办呢？
Sometimes kids don’t think their parents are fair to them.When you want to dress in a modern way，your mum doesn’t like you to wear a mini-skirt.When you are making phone calls to friends，they ask if you are speaking to a boy or a girl.
Sometimes it seems that you’re not as close to your parents as before.And sometimes you have nothing to say with them.How can you become close again?Closing the Gap by American writer Jay McGraw gives advice on how to have a better relationship with your parents.
The book gives ways to help teens understand their parents.When you think“My parents don’t want me to have any fun”，that usually means your parents want you to be safe.They are afraid that you will do something wrong outside your home.Both parents and children have needs.They need to feel they are important and loved. You should tell your parents your needs，and find out what their needs are.Then you can think of a way to make all of you happy.The book gives you some ideas:
1.Make time to talk.You could talk about your school life or your plans for the future.
2.Keep a dairy.This is to help you understand more about yourself and your feelings.
3.Show your parents you are growing up.Wash your own clothes and help clean the house.Your parents will feel that you are no longer a small child.
If you follow these steps，gradually，you will be able to break down the walls between your parents and yourself.
如何与父母更亲近
有时，孩子们会觉得父母对他们不公平。当你想穿得时髦一些时，你母亲不喜欢你穿超短裙。当你和朋友打电话时，他们会问，和你通话的是男孩还是女孩。
有时，你似乎不像以前那样和父母亲近；有时，你和他们无话可说。那么，怎样才能和父母重新亲密起来呢？美国一位作家Jay McGraw写了一本叫《消除隔阂》的书，该书就怎样和父母融洽关系给出了建议。
这本书给出了一些方法，帮助青少年理解自己的父母。当你认为 “父母不想让我去玩”时，父母的意思通常是想要你安全一些。他们担心你在外面会闯下什么祸。父母和孩子都有自己的需求，双方都需要感觉到自己的重要和被人疼爱。你应该告诉父母你的需求，然后发现父母的需要是什么。然后你就能找到一种使大家都能快乐的好方法。书中谈了一些作者的想法：
1.抽出时间和父母谈话。你可以和他们讲你的校园生活，或者你对未来的打算。
2.坚持记日记。这能更好地帮助你了解自己的情感。
3.让父母知道你正在长大。自己洗衣服，帮忙打扫屋子。父母将会感到你真的已不是小孩子了。
如果你照着这几个步骤去做，你将会渐渐地打破你和父母之间的那堵墙。
Task for you:
1. The writing mainly tells us that .
A. it’s important to find your and your parents’ needs and then think ofa way to be happy
B. it’s hard to break down the walls between your parents and yourself
C. your parents don’t like you to wear mini-skirts
2. Closing the Gap is a book.
A. on how to make friends with your classmates
B. on how to have a better relationship with your parents
C. on how to study well
3. Which of the following will help you to get close with your parents?
A. You often talk with parents and keep a dairy.
B. You try to show your parents you are growing up.
C. Both A and B.
Kesy: 1.A2.B 3.C
Sometimes kids don’t think their parents are fair to them.When you want to dress in a modern way，your mum doesn’t like you to wear a mini-skirt.When you are making phone calls to friends，they ask if you are speaking to a boy or a girl.
Sometimes it seems that you’re not as close to your parents as before.And sometimes you have nothing to say with them.How can you become close again?Closing the Gap by American writer Jay McGraw gives advice on how to have a better relationship with your parents.
The book gives ways to help teens understand their parents.When you think“My parents don’t want me to have any fun”，that usually means your parents want you to be safe.They are afraid that you will do something wrong outside your home.Both parents and children have needs.They need to feel they are important and loved. You should tell your parents your needs，and find out what their needs are.Then you can think of a way to make all of you happy.The book gives you some ideas:
1.Make time to talk.You could talk about your school life or your plans for the future.
2.Keep a dairy.This is to help you understand more about yourself and your feelings.
3.Show your parents you are growing up.Wash your own clothes and help clean the house.Your parents will feel that you are no longer a small child.
If you follow these steps，gradually，you will be able to break down the walls between your parents and yourself.
如何与父母更亲近
有时，孩子们会觉得父母对他们不公平。当你想穿得时髦一些时，你母亲不喜欢你穿超短裙。当你和朋友打电话时，他们会问，和你通话的是男孩还是女孩。
有时，你似乎不像以前那样和父母亲近；有时，你和他们无话可说。那么，怎样才能和父母重新亲密起来呢？美国一位作家Jay McGraw写了一本叫《消除隔阂》的书，该书就怎样和父母融洽关系给出了建议。
这本书给出了一些方法，帮助青少年理解自己的父母。当你认为 “父母不想让我去玩”时，父母的意思通常是想要你安全一些。他们担心你在外面会闯下什么祸。父母和孩子都有自己的需求，双方都需要感觉到自己的重要和被人疼爱。你应该告诉父母你的需求，然后发现父母的需要是什么。然后你就能找到一种使大家都能快乐的好方法。书中谈了一些作者的想法：
1.抽出时间和父母谈话。你可以和他们讲你的校园生活，或者你对未来的打算。
2.坚持记日记。这能更好地帮助你了解自己的情感。
3.让父母知道你正在长大。自己洗衣服，帮忙打扫屋子。父母将会感到你真的已不是小孩子了。
如果你照着这几个步骤去做，你将会渐渐地打破你和父母之间的那堵墙。
Task for you:
1. The writing mainly tells us that .
A. it’s important to find your and your parents’ needs and then think ofa way to be happy
B. it’s hard to break down the walls between your parents and yourself
C. your parents don’t like you to wear mini-skirts
2. Closing the Gap is a book.
A. on how to make friends with your classmates
B. on how to have a better relationship with your parents
C. on how to study well
3. Which of the following will help you to get close with your parents?
A. You often talk with parents and keep a dairy.
B. You try to show your parents you are growing up.
C. Both A and B.
Kesy: 1.A2.B 3.C