来访者是一位中年妇女,属于那种不刻意修饰的知识女性,她是为儿子来找我咨询的。看得出她的心情很急切,这是所有为子女的身心健康忧虑的母亲共同的表现。她很健谈,有很好的语言表达能力,近两个小时的谈话,我除了偶尔插问几句,基本上是静静地听,认真地观察和体会她的表情和话语。从她白净的脸上和说话时的眼神里,我 The visitor is a middle-aged woman, belonging to the kind of female who does not deliberately modify the knowledge of women, she is looking for my son to consult. It is clear that she is very anxious, a common expression of all mothers who are anxious about their children’s physical and mental health. She is talkative and has good language skills. In the last two hours, apart from occasionally interjecting a few words, I basically listened quietly and conscientiously observed and understood her expressions and discourse. From her white face and eyes when speaking to me