“家教”,是当前人们经常使用的一个词语;“家庭教育”,是现在人们谈论较多的一个热门话题。但是,在人们议论、思考乃至实际操作的过程中,却常常出现许多矛盾,有的甚至南辕北辙,背道而驰。细想起来,饶有趣味,特撷取数条,试加分析,以供议论者、研究者、施行者参考。 “Tutoring” is a term commonly used by people today; “family education” is a hot topic that people are talking about more now. However, during the process of people’s discussion, thinking and even actual operation, many contradictions often appear, some of which even depart from the opposite direction. In retrospect, it is interesting, especially capture a few, try plus analysis, for discussion, researchers, practitioners reference.