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孩子也能教育父母吗?在心理咨询中,许多父母向心理医生提出这个问题。“妈妈,别唠叨了!家里没个安静的时候,让我怎么集中精力学习?”——12岁的女孩在埋怨母亲。“爸、妈!你们别吵架了!也不怕别人笑话?你们过不到一块快离婚!我可不爱听你们吵!”——16岁的高中生要充当“法官”了。类似的例子很多。笔者要反问父母们,孩子说的并不错吧?的确,父母无法否认,但他们又不能接受眼前的事实:孩子毕竟是孩子,长幼辈分总不能颠倒呀!
Can children also educate their parents? In counseling, many parents ask the psychiatrist this question. “Mom, do not naggle! No quiet time at home, let me concentrate on how to learn?” “- 12-year-old girl complaining about her mother. ”Dad, Mom! You do not quarrel! Not afraid of jokes? You are less than a divorce soon! I do not want to hear your noisy! “ - 16-year-old high school students to act as ”Judge ". A lot of similar examples. I would like to ask parents, the children said not bad? Indeed, parents can not deny, but they can not accept the immediate fact that children are children, after all, the older generation can not be reversed up ah!