要让孩子成为新世纪高素质人才,父母作为第一任老师。应当遵循科学的育儿原则,改变旧的教育观念,具体地说,应注意以下几点: 一是改变评价孩子的标准。过去把“听话”作为“好孩子”的唯一标准。众多家长都知道表扬自己的孩子,一开口就是“你真乖”“你真可爱”等,这看似表扬,实质是让孩子具备“遵从”的性格,而现代社会需要的是具有独立意识和能力的人。家长要从小培养孩子独立发现问题、分析问题和解决问题 Let the children become high-quality talents in the new century, parents as the first teacher. Should follow the principle of scientific childcare, change the old concept of education, specifically, should note the following: First, change the standard of evaluation of children. In the past to “obedient” as the only “good boy” standard. Many parents are aware of their children praise, an opening is “you really good,” “you are so cute”, which seemingly praised, in essence, is to allow children to have “compliant” character, and modern society needs is an independent sense and Competent people. Parents from childhood to raise children independently found the problem, analyze the problem and solve the problem