“老师,他拿走了我的玩具。”孩子向我哭诉。我想告诉她,你们应该友好,互相谦让,可这时,我不由想起自己儿时也有过这样的经历:不满和敌对的情绪。这些情感在当年都是不允许表达出来的。必须做出谦让别人的样子,愿意让别人玩自己的玩具。因为大人总说:“好孩子要懂得谦让。”现在,我作为大人,却差点儿用同样的方式教训孩子,这不能不让我再次提醒自己,要站在孩子的位置上。 “Teacher, he took my toy.” The child cried to me. I want to tell her that you should be friendly and humbling each other. But at this moment, I can not help but think of my childhood experience of dissatisfaction and hostility. These emotions were not allowed to be expressed in the current year. Must be modest to others and be willing to let others play with their own toys. Because adults always said: “Good boy to know how to humility.” Now, as an adult, I almost teach the child the same way, which can not but let me remind myself once again, to stand on the child’s position.